I think if you have had the thought that they might be taking advantage, then they probably are in someway doing so, but your love for them is clouding your judgement, and your want for them not doing something like that is shifting your thoughts to the side of 'hmm maybe it is just me'.
Let it pass once, maybe it was a mistake on their behalf. If it happens again, then you know they need to be told, and act, to stop them doing it again! (whatever it may be)
I think if you have had the thought that they might be taking advantage, then they probably are in someway doing so, but your love for them is clouding your judgement, and your want for them not doing something like that is shifting your thoughts to the side of 'hmm maybe it is just me'.
ReplyDeleteLet it pass once, maybe it was a mistake on their behalf. If it happens again, then you know they need to be told, and act, to stop them doing it again! (whatever it may be)
Yeah, some people are jerks. I just have to learn to accept it.
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